Navigating Heartbreak

Breakups are undeniably one of life's most challenging experiences. The emotional instability that follows can feel overwhelming, leaving you dealing with feelings of sadness, anger, and confusion. However, just as a storm eventually clears, so does the pain of a breakup. While healing takes time and we all have our own journey through it, there are several powerful coping strategies that you can try out today that can help you navigate this difficult period and emerge stronger on the other side.

Journaling: Unleashing Your Thoughts and Emotions

Let’s begin with one that is easy for many, journaling. Journaling can be one of the most liberating strategies that you can use during this difficult time. The simple act of putting pen to paper and letting your heart speak can have a profound impact on your emotional wellbeing. Journaling provides a safe space to express your feelings without judgment, allowing you to untangle the complex web of emotions going through your head. Pour your heart out onto the pages, detailing your thoughts, regrets, anger and hopes for the future. As you write, you'll begin to gain clarity and perspective, helping you make sense of your feelings and paving the way for healing.

 

Meditation: Finding Peace Amidst Chaos

Meditation is a powerful tool for grounding yourself during times of emotional turmoil. It allows you to create moments of stillness and tranquility amidst the storm of emotions. Through mindfulness and deep breathing, you can learn to acknowledge your feelings without being overwhelmed by them. Regular meditation sessions can help you cultivate inner strength and resilience, enabling you to let go of the past and embrace the present moment. If you don’t know how to meditate, don’t worry, no one is born knowing how to do everything in this world. There are countless guided meditation videos on You Tube. You can try listening to a podcast dedicated just to guided meditations on any of your music streaming platforms. The point here is to get you to ground yourself and listen to your body and the emotions running through it. The last thing you want to do is keep all that pent up emotion in your body which can manifest itself in many other things as time goes on. I have a fantastic release meditation that you can download for free. At the end of this post, I will let you know where you can find that free download.

 

Exercise: Nurturing Your Body and Mind

As mentioned above, when we do not release negative emotions from our bodies they start to manifest in other ways. You could feel tired, lose concentration, and start getting sick over the smallest things. Physical activity has a remarkable impact on your emotional state. Engaging in regular exercise boosts the production of endorphins, the body's natural mood enhancers. Remember what Elle Woods said, “Happy people don’t shoot their husbands!” So get active, don’t let the tears win all the time, get up and start enjoying life. Whether it's going for a jog, practicing yoga, hitting the gym, or dancing to your favorite tunes, exercise provides a healthy outlet for releasing pent-up emotions. Not only will you improve your overall fitness, but you'll also experience a sense of accomplishment that contributes to your emotional healing. So yes, as Meredith Grey said, “let’s dance it out!”.

 

Creative Outlets: Expressing Pain through Art

If I could count how many heartbreaks I have had. Well actually I can!! ALL my certifications have come after a BIG breakup. Finding a creative way to release all the pain we feel and let our mind focus on something else is truly our biggest gift to our mind during this time. Creativity can be a powerful way to channel your feelings constructively. Engaging in creative pursuits such as painting, writing, playing a musical instrument, or crafting allows you to express your emotions in ways words sometimes can't capture. Your creations become a reflection of your journey, serving as a reminder of your strength and resilience as you move forward. I have decorated cakes, taken up calligraphy, make up classes, and the biggest one of all, completely changed my career to find myself now talking about love in a new way as a certified relationship coach. Funny how life has everything planned out for you. Don’t be afraid to try something new, find that passion, find that purpose. Now is the time!

 

Social Support: Lean on Your Network

During difficult times, your support system plays a crucial role in your healing process. Reach out to friends and family who care about you. Open up to them about your feelings, and allow them to provide comfort, empathy, and a listening ear. Surrounding yourself with loved ones can help you feel less isolated and remind you that you're not alone on this journey. But if you feel like none of your friends and family understand where you are at this moment, then please do not forget that you can always reach out to a professional therapist, counselor, or coach during this time. We are all here to help you during this transition because we want to see you smile and shine again.

 

Self-Care: Prioritize Your Wellbeing

Self-care is not just a buzzword; it's an essential component of healing after a breakup. Take time to nurture yourself through activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Whether it's taking long baths, indulging in your favorite book, or treating yourself to a spa day, self-care reinforces the message that you are deserving of love and attention, even when you're flying solo. Learn to enjoy your own company, this will give you insight into what you might want to look for in any future relationship.

 

Self-Love: Understanding How to Choose You, Pick You & Love You.

Self-love is a concept that many people equate to self-care, and in part they are correct. To me self-love has taken on a whole new meaning. During my healing journey, I discovered a whole new world when I finally understood what self-love meant. And let me tell you it was not buying myself pretty things and going to spas and so forth. When I truly sat down with myself and I accepted my flaws and all and forgave me for everything, that is when I understood what self-love meant. Self-love is not a quick fix, it’s a constant journey, that just like any other relationship requires time, love, and patience. I created a whole program dedicated to understanding your values and how those are tied to how we give ourselves self-love. If you are interested in applying for the program, send me a message and let’s get started on your new chapter full in the abundance of love.

Just remember, a breakup can leave you feeling adrift, but with the right coping strategies and the right mindset you can navigate the storm and find solid ground once again. Journaling, meditation, exercise, creative outlets, social support, self-care & self-love are all potent tools that empower you to heal and grow. Healing takes time, so be patient with yourself as you embrace this new journey and gradually find the strength to rebuild and emerge from this experience even stronger than before, because my darling just like the Phoenix you will rise from the ashes embracing the beauty of your own resilience and the promise of a new day.

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Sarai Tave

Singles & Relationship Coach

sarai@moonlightdevi.com